2004-11-15
Short thoughts
I had not thought about it, but many of the diaries on my favorites are Texas based. I went to school and lived in Texas for about ten years, splitting time between San Antonio and Houston. I would move back to San Antonio, Austin or the Hill Country at the drop of a hat if given the opportunity (sorry H-Town, but I have no interest).
Reading lildebkitty today, I got to thinking about the importance of sex in a relationship. How important is it really? I wish my wife and I had some and it might or might not come back into our relationship, but our relationship is so much more. We have been married six and half years and we still make each other laugh, would rather sit on the floor of the living room play cards talking to one another than watch shit on TV and genuinely love each other. If my wife told me we would never have sex again, I would not leave her. Don’t get me wrong, I would not be happy but it would not be the end. I would still have my fantasies, my right hand, and could continue to live voyeuristically through my Dland friends. How important is sex in a relationship, well, I guess I would put the number at about 10%, maybe 15% of a relationship. There is so much more to a relationship than the physical.
Have I just forgotten or am I right? Let me know how important you think it is to a relationship….
BTW, best of luck, Kitty. I have never been there myself, but I am sure it is a tough place to be.
-- rockabillie at 2:49 p.m.