2004-11-14
No quick fix :-(
So, my wife and I are playing cards together the other night in front of a nice warm fire, just enjoying a great time together. I eventually start trying to talk to her about the articles that I printed out, trying to see what her thoughts were and to see what she thought about talking to her Doctor about trying to fiddle with her meds to see if she would be a little more receptive to me fiddling with her…
I come to find out that while she still intends to read the information, that she has not done so yet. I think she really does not like the fact that the article refers to the condition as sexual dysfunction. I guess I cannot blame her; I would not really like to be hit with a label of being sexually dysfunctional. I think to her the term means being physically unable to perform while in her case the plumbing is not the issue. I tried to encourage her to read the articles and try to set aside the dysfunction term and just see what they had to say. Again she promised to read them, but so far this has not been the Eureka moment for her that it was for me. I am not sure she really sees this as a problem.
Her primary comment was that no one would believe us that there was sexual dysfunction in our relationship since we have made a habit of popping out kids over the last few years. All I know is that May was a hell of a long time ago and she just has no interest in talking or touching, let alone sucking and fucking. Remember that line in Top Gun when Goose says, “I just want to find a woman to talk dirty to me!”? Well, that would at least be a start, but alas, she has no interest.
Eso es muy malo!
-- rockabillie at 1:20 p.m.